By Nick Koop
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01 May, 2023
Four weeks in to fatherhood and you know what? It's still pretty bloody hard. The inconsistent sleep schedule, the massive bags under my eyes, the feeling of no light at the end of the tunnel, being vomited and pooped on, and the uncertainty of whether you are doing anything correctly. However, I am also grateful for a lot of things and thought I'd share those instead of having a big whinge. My dog not wanting to eat my baby. Was a real worry but he's been amazing so far. (He's hungrily looking at the food below, not her). Grandparents who are hooked on her like she is heroin. I'll gladly enable their habit so we can enjoy a few hours out for dinner each week. Having Vivid Recruitment with Lee Stevens and the flexibility it has provided. I can't imagine supporting my partner and raising our daughter if I was forced into an office all day every day. If you don't work for a supportive and flexible company, call us and we will find you one that is. An incredibly kind, patient and strong partner. Don't have kids with someone you don't like - it won't make things better. I'm definitely going to jinx it now, but our little girl is actually sleeping relatively well. The fact that dads can now talk about the mental challenges we face. I love her but it feels like I'm doing some things out of duty at the moment, and that's okay. They are the main ones for now but I would also be grateful if the engineering market could lift. Formula and nappies will send me broke if my clients don't have some pity and show me some more love 🙏😉 Final product recommendations from this wise, old dad: Proper car seat instead of capsule (do all capsules have their chin on their chest and give massive anxiety?). So many dummies, ideally with a gps tracker in them, which would be nice. Polynesian spa play list on Spotify is a life saver. Nappies with the blue line for wee. My child screams bloody murder being changed, so it's a relief to check quickly Owlet sock gives great peace of mind but is a pain in the arse when it is beeping in the middle of the night after losing connection. Still an 8/10. As always, if you have some more tips for this tired person, let me know. And if you are an engineer or an engineering consultancy, I promise I'm not too tired to help you out. Call me! Contact Nick If you would like to have a conversation about your career or a job vacancy, give Nick a buzz or drop him a line via 📲 0426 180 254 📧 nick@vividrecruitment.com.au You can also connect with Nick on LinkedIn or follow the Vivid Recruitment LinkedIn page for more industry insights, news, jobs and general chit chat and tips!